One of the biggest gripes bridesmaids have is that they’ll be forced to wear some frilly, mustard-yellow, taffeta, bow-covered concoction. Thankfully, bridesmaids’ dresses have come a long way in recent years, and brides should see and understand this. The whole mentality of the bride putting the bridesmaids in ugly dresses so that she looks more beautiful needs to be kicked to the curb, yes--regardless of what the bridesmaids wear, the bride will be the star of the day. The dresses should be something that the bride would have no problem wearing herself.
*An easy way to ensure all the women feel comfortable in their dresses is to have them wear the same color and fabric, but a cut in which they feel comfortable. Allow each bridesmaid to wear a dress that suits her body type and style, rather than making a half-dozen ladies with different body types wear the same dress. Another option is to have your bridesmaids choose whatever dress they’d like, as long as it’s a certain color.
*Cost is another consideration. I suggests brides look beyond the typical bridal salons, as they can be pricey. Check out J.Crew, Ann Taylor, Loehmann’s, or any of the major department stores.
And sometimes, simply asking your bridesmaids can make all the difference.
Choose wisely your bridesmaids dresses, because one day the very same torture you subjected your bridesmaids to wear may happen to you.
Share your story: What's the worst bridesmaid dress you've ever had to wear/seen at a wedding?
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